Sunday, October 13, 2013

The twins are here!

Karrin delivered the girls last night and without the need for a c-section! Both girls had stayed 'head down' which made it favorable for 'regular'/vaginal delivery. Apparently only around 5% these days do traditional delivery with twins.  Many have no choice but to do a c section for a variety of reasons with twins.  We are so thankful that Karrin and the girls are both very healthy and resting.

Since the girls are identical, meaning in the same placenta, many things can go wrong after 36/37 weeks so we decided to induce at 37 weeks since she didn't go before then on her own.  Those girls just loved being in there.  Karrin had no restrictions at all the whole time which is truly amazing.

 The process started Saturday morning when we checked in at the hospital at 7am as requested by Karrin's OB, Dr Amy Fletcher so we could have the babies mid afternoon at the latest.  Amy is like a girlfriend through all of this as such a wonderful person and is also a mother of twins.  She has been so supportive of everything and really wanted us to do a vaginal delivery too.

Unfortunately, when we arrived at 7am it turned out that the maternity ward was way overcrowded. They had just experienced the busiest 3 days of the entire year and there were no nurses available in order to start inducing Karrin and check her into a room. Karrin was obviously a low priority as she should have been as she wasn't in active labor.  Karrin was told not to eat (in case they needed to do emergancy c section if "b" turned when "a" delivered) and so as the hours went by she became really hungry. It wasn't until 4pm that she was officially admitted and started the induction (shortly followed by a helpful epidural - best thing ever invented if must be induced). Poor Karrin! She was such a trooper.  Karrin's mom was with us that night for support and helped take great care of Karrin while I took a few naps.

Once the induction started, she had steady progress until 4am when she was finally ready for delivery. Because of the real risk of an emergency c-section due to 'b' possibly flipping or having issues after 'a's delivery, we needed to deliver in the Operating Room.  I donned the OR garb and rolled her down the hall. Wow, it was really happening; it was here.  The OR filled with staff and they got everything ready - over 10 people for us. After a few pushes, Heidi was on her way out! She cried and Karrin got to see her before she was moved to a baby table. Greta was still head down but needed to come into position. Karrin coughed a few times (because she still has her cold) and that helped. lol! 13 minutes after Heidi came into the world, Greta followed after 3 more pushes. All the staff were really impressed with how smooth it went.  We really had no idea how few vaginal twins happen nowadays but afterwards find out quite rare.  I had the chance to hold both girls for a quick picture in the OR, then back to the room to meet Grandma Lolly.

The next day Karrin's mom and dad brought the boys up to meet the girls. It was a special visit and Finn was really happy to see them. Elan didn't seemed to know what to think and not too keen on the whole thing.  He just wanted our attention, which who can blame him?

Here are the pictures from last night and today. Thank you for all your thoughts and prayers.

Here are their personal details:
Heidi Jane was born at 4:38am, 6 lbs 4.7oz, 19 inches
Greta May was born at 4:52am, 4 lbs 9.2oz, 18.5 inches
And they are definitely identical and have brown (or at least dark-colored) eyes.


The girls right after delivery still in the OR.


Proud daddy moment!


Headed back to he labor room.


Grandma's first glimpse.


Grandma's first time holding.




Karrin's super special nurse, Melanie, who helped her labor and deliver. She has 5 kids and her youngest is 5 months old.


This morning, taking a nap.




First family photo!



meeting grandpa doug!

Finn so proud and thrilled




Boys' "Big Brother" braclets from the hospital staff



Sunday, October 6, 2013

Baby Shower etc.

Just a quick update.  All is well!  Boys really enjoying Kindergarten and Preschool.  Elan has been continuing to make great progress with PT and Speech.  He is now doing both at school and with PT it is while they are out at the playground so other kids are incorporated if they want (usually most of the class ends up with them) which makes it so much more fun for him.

Both boys have no separation anxiety from us.  Elan last week started saying - OK mom, time for you to go bye bye when dropping him off.  Proud yet sad!  Finn just runs to the bus.  Erik has been great at letting me rest and waking up with both boys as Finn's bus comes at 7:10 AM and letting me rest this week.

My pregnancy has been going great.  36 weeks and 3 days today.  They are moving around a ton and baby 'a" has been head down the whole time but baby "b" just can't make up her mind! She was head down, breech, head down, and now breech again!  I am still doing all I can to turn her with Traditional Chinese Herbs called moxibustion (smells like pot so had to let all the neighbors know I am not 36 week pregnant engaging in rec drugs.  several said they smelled it and wondered who it was :)), Webster method chiropractic as well as "spinning babies" stretches.  So at least I have tried everything! Since the girls are identical it really isn't safe to go past 37 weeks because of several risks.  The biggest is still birth - not worth the risk!  So if she doesn't turn c section on Friday but if she does induction on Saturday!  Still in denial I will have 2 babies in less than a week!

The only other thing is just swollen feet at the end of the day and so really need to rest when Erik gets home from work.  He has been a jewel at taking the boys outside so I can rest a bit.  He has also fed them and put them in bath so all I need to do is book and prayer.  Really, really helpful!

Our lovely friends in our congregation put on an adorable baby shower for me a few weeks ago!  It was so, so kind!  Here are some photos:

Boys in tub getting in "truble" as Elan put it - but too cute that Elan is now attacking Finn these days :)



Rachel threw at her home - so kind to have so many at her home!

so cute, right?  Twins in the fruit!


cute baby diaper take aways





Crazy 60's decorations.  Greta all mod and Heidi a bit punky as Erik puts it.

The girls so kind to put the shower on!  Rachel, Marta and Charlotte are the loveliest, kindest girls!